No longer forgetting what the other didn’t say. Listening for the peace underlying the language of the heart and mind. Believing in one another in order to catch him or her doing something right and repeatedly affirming them despite evidence to the contrary.

The language we have is the vehicle to understanding(discovering) this mysterious essense of who we are and what we are to do together in real time.

I”m no longer going to sell(reject/be indifferent to) the gold mine of my heart in order to search for the illusive treasure buried in the heart of someone else’s chest that I thought should have been mine(envy). Ecclesiastes 4:4