"There must be a reason for this".  This is a phrase I often hear that seems more like hindsight than revelation. What if we said there must be some revelation from this? Would something be heard that separates me from the herd mentality? Something of value spiritually? Revelation disarms reason from it's limitations and empowers wisdom to move onward and upward. It may take someone to help with this, so be willing to seek counsel rather than a reason. Numbers 10:31