The majority of words that I hear others speaking about others is more due to a lack of judgment from a racing mind.  A racing mind sees no faces. The crowd is even faceless. Poor judgment rules and increasing anxiety threatens any question that is brought. Heart and mind are divided thus dividing others into divisions that have no common goal other than to win at all costs. The victory can rarely be justifiied as to its value of devaluing others. 

Guidance is rarely clear from a racing view. And even when clear, cloudy judgment often fogs over right action in a desperate need to be right even when wrong. A racing mind is trying to make sense of the senseless. Common sense becomes uncommon unless one stops to truly think through rather than define what one wants to be true. 

What is true and obvious that is overlooked because of what you want to be true?