I'm often asked if I know of any good self-help books to recommend for someone to read. I find that ironic in that asking me for help to find a self-help book kills the original intent. I might consider writing a book on how to find a self-help book without asking for help to find it. That would maintain one's self-help integrity. However if you are still thinking what kind of book to read and you insist on a self-help book, read a self-care book about asking for help.