The Golden Rule

Break all the rules of "fairness" by loving others the way they uniquely need to be loved. Matthew 7:12

Community

Never having to say things only once one way. 2 Peter1:12,13

Disconnected

Lip-syncing conclusions. James 2:18,19, 1 John 3:18

Skillful

Bringing structure to experiential knowledge. Isaiah 50:4, 2 Timothy 2:15

Vision

Promise outweighs threat. Proverbs 29:18

Enforcing Freedom

Revealing the ends or outcomes while allowing uniquenesses to express themselves toward these ends or outcomes. Since our uniqueness isn't a blemish, those "blemishes" who try to force us to remove ours create resentment and dependence. Jude 10-16

Inspiration

No longer needing strategic moves to manipulate the emotions. Psalm 138:3

Perfectionism

Collapsing into one's ego. Luke 18:23

Fight Club

Group formed for beating a surprise to death. There is an alternative. Philippians 2:5

Wooing to Wow

Waking up to significance. Hosea 2:14

Analytical Risk

Separating the voice from the subject making it a distant object. Amos 8:4-11

Solitude

Courageous hope of caring for our loneliness.

Relighting Delight

Desiring to have your desires back, wanting to want again. Willing to resume growth so as not to grieve the Spirit. Psalm 37:4

Becoming One

Intensely intimate, yet separate, as opposed to turning away and withdrawing. John 17:22

Active Self-Respect

Willing to settle down and take a deep breath. Psalm 46:10

Clean Pain

Falling together rather than falling apart, taking in the emotions rather than getting them out of your system. A growing and maturing intimacy with our shame allows us to kiss it good-bye, learning to tolerate it's pain without holding on to it. Job 11:15  

Sharp

Well-surrounded rather than well-rounded. Proverbs 27:17